The online-dating industry conference, an annual three-day affair, hosts a diverse mix of the date-o-sphere’s rich and poor. In 2012, with a third of America’s 90 million singles dating online–not counting those who hook up through Facebook and other social-media sites–it’s easy to forget the recent bygone era, when “Internet dating” was considered a seamy, almost unspeakable underworld, where the web’s most troglodytic misfits sought weird companionship. So it was a rather perspective-enhancing move, on the part of conference organizers, to kick off Day One with a keynote address from a congenial, awkward, and unassuming man, the original weirdo, Gary Kremen.
You’ve got the big corporate players (Google; Bing; and IAC, owner of Match and Ok Cupid); the geek-outsiders-cum-major-industry-disrupters (Plenty of Fish, Grindr); the pious marriage specialists; the purveyors of deviance; the upstart wannabes and the unabashed snake-oil salesmen. Seventeen years ago, Kremen, now 48, secured the domain-name “Match.com” from the government (when such was still possible), opened a small office in San Francisco’s South Park neighborhood, bought a 0,000 server on credit from Sun Microsystems, and launched what would become the Internet’s first mass-market dating site, a subscription-based service that promised, as the young Kremen reportedly put it at the time, “to bring more love to the planet than Jesus Christ.” The exuberance was short-lived, however.
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There are so many factors to take into consideration: I find that people who are new to the dating world (recently divorced etc.) go straight for one end of the dating industry spectrum i.e.
Back then, not everyone acknowledged the benefits of this activity, which was perceived as a rather impersonal way of finding love.The world of dating is almost unrecognisable compared to 10 years ago, when I first took a detour in my career as a business psychologist, opting to help people with their love lives instead of their work lives.Ten years ago, I had just about heard of and there were but a handful of introduction agencies in the UK who catered for the more discerning clientele (some still using folders with printed profiles of eligible singletons to browse through).“It’s difficult, giving up your baby like that,” Kremen told the conference audience.“I should’ve made the million.” It might be some consolation: all these years later, Kremen’s stamp is still very much evident, in at least one major way. So, In 2007, Alex Mehr and Shayan Zadeh noticed that the younger generation’s conception of dating was more closely described by a social-networking site like Facebook than by a traditional dating site.Zoosk, Mehr says, “is for a social life–with dating in mind.” By 2010, Zoosk had shot to the top of the U. rankings of online-dating sites, with nearly 5 million unique visitors. One of its former employees, who spoke to a packed conference room in the afternoon, believes that Match and its kind–i.e.